You, my friend, are a champ!

I think that the hardest thing in life is to be insecure. Insecurity sort of blocks everything that a person can do and achieve. It prevents one from striving and reaches his/her goal. I have a lot of insecurities but also confidence at the same time. I appear confident because I choose to be. Although, I know that if I let myself dwell in it, my insecurity will rob away my happiness and ability to have a peripheral vision. It will make me feel like a piece of useless no good trash.

As a human being, I am insecure about a lot of things. Most of all, I am insecure about my future. It is all a blur. I have gone through some major changes in my life and found out things that I never thought would have happened to me. But I also know that it is all a part of life and that many people feel the same.

I think that insecurity is good in a way because it lets you realize that you are not such a goddess after all. I realize that I am not a superior being with my many weaknesses and foolish acts. I think that it lets me to be humbler in a sense but however I also believe in overcoming my obstacles and change for the best. It also makes me realize that I need people and God in my life and that I need to appreciate, depend and treat them well. But I have to admit that I fail a lot of times because sometimes I take things for granted.

I know that many of my friends (maybe you) are feeling insecure about some areas in their lives. I will not call you weak. I will not call you a fool. I will not despise your insecurities because everyone is different and we all have our own strength and weakness. However, if I may say, please don’t dwell in your negative thoughts or the bleak future. I believe in the phrase that the sun will shine another day. Although I have to admit that there are times that I, myself, feel that I am so blue I don’t think I can see the colour of flowers anymore. But I am trying to walk in a straight line.

I am not a motivational speaker nor am I the wisest person in the whole world. But somehow, I do believe that everyone, despite his/her bad personality traits, has good qualities that can be found and sharpened. It is all about wisely balancing your yin and yang. We are not perfect after all.

I know that sometimes we dwell in our imperfections for a long time. We tend to think about the negative aspects in our lives but fail to notice that we are blessed in many ways. Maybe this doesn’t apply to you but I know that it applies to me. It is very close to home. But I also know that some of the people I know don’t realize what wonderful people they are. I think that each human is special in his/her own way.

I do believe that each one of my friends will turn out well. I believe in every one of them and I think that it is about time that I let you know that someone does believe in you. I do. Xoxoxo